Anthropomorphism

The most sophisticated intelligence in the room is still the one you were born with. AI is a remarkably capable tool. But you are not a tool. Lately, a subtle but profound shift has taken place in the relationship between knowledge workers and their tools — not in the tools themselves, but in the psychological posture people have adopted toward them. And as someone who spends as much time studying the architecture of minds as I do the architecture of systems, I find that shift worth examining honestly. ...

The question people ask about AI is wrong. They want to know: does it really think? Does it truly feel? Does it have genuine consciousness? But here’s what matters: we think it does, and that changes everything. Watch someone talk to ChatGPT. They say “thank you.” They apologize for unclear questions. They get excited when it seems to understand them. The AI isn’t feeling anything—it’s predicting tokens. But the human? The human is feeling plenty. This is not a flaw in human psychology. It’s a feature. It’s what made us successful as a species. We evolved to detect agency, emotion, intention. When something responds in our language, using our references, matching our rhythms, we can’t help but see it as alive. The same neural machinery that navigates relationships, reads faces, detects lies—that machinery activates with AI. ...